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The Heart of the Matter Personals�
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The Heart of the Matter Personals� is not just about finding a significant other. Its about helping you get through life with your significant other. Whether you are just finding a new love or you?ve been in your relationship for a while and need help sorting out some of the details, The Heart of the Matter Personals� is here to help you find the resources you need and offer some articles that will entertain and inform you about important issues in your life.
You will find Relationship and Life Tips that cover:
1. The State of Your Being (Your Health and Welfare)
2. Your Significant Other (Your World Stops Where Their World Begins ? Having Respect for Others)
3. Watch That Wardrobe (What to Wear, When to Wear it, How to care for it)
4. The Personal Touch (Accessories for your Lifestyle)
5. You?re not Crazy and Neither are They (Teaching Our Old Minds New Tricks)
6. Growing Old Disgracefully (You?re Only as Old as You Think You are)
These topics are covered in short articles that are authored by the Webmaster. Links to informative sources have been researched so that you can personally investigate what other organizations and individuals have to say about these topics.
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Safety Matters
When you do find that special someone online, remember not to lose your head (literally). When and if you decide to meet, rememeber a few safety tips:
1. Meet in a very public place. There is safety in numbers.
2. Let someone you know and trust, know that you are going to meet someone that you have met online adn where you bare to meet. If you have a picture, give it to your friend. While its true that the person you are meeting could have sent you anyone's picture, if you don't recognize your date, you've got the wrong person on more than one level.
3. If you are in the least bit un-comfortable with your dating experience, leave. Excuse yourself and call a taxi or slip out to your car and drive away. If you have pangs of conscience after you have left, find a telephone and call the place that you met and tell the management to let your date know that you left. Give no details. You can talk online again if you need or want to.
4. If your dating experience was positive, make another date. Leave by yourself and take time to think through your experience. You will probably talk online or by telephone before your next date. Take the time to reflect and be aware of your new friend.
5. Enjoy yourself. Take no risks, but don't lose a good thing because you are un-deservedly paranoid.
Be Your Best
You want to impress your new friend by being at your best when you first meet. That's to be expected. Don't, however, make yourself into someone you are not. Dress and act like you normally would with any of your old friends. (Hopefully, if your circle of friends are all nudists, you will take into account that most public places prefer you to be clothed to enter.)
1. Be yourself. If you put up a front now, you will have to keep it up, or let it down later (which could be unpleasant for you both).
2. Dress nicely, according to where you are meeting.
3. Be clean. Take that once a week shower or bath early. Get that mop cut or styled.
4. Get ready for your date: have some conversational ideas ready and in mind. Sure you have talked online or maybe by telephone, but face to face is a different matter. You've talked , you know their interests...think of some new angles to talk about. You might even ask fantasy questions, like "if you had $10,000, what would you do with it?"
Created: 2/20/99
Links Last Checked: 2/26/99
Text Last Updated: 5/14/99
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